We are a lot
curious to know how people treat us in something that we are allied with them
but actually we forget how we treat them. We people are better ready to get
something special from our mates that he/she doesn't give to everyone and
forget to give them anything that is entirely new to them. We are human being
of 21st century but with the exaggeration of the world in population as well as
developmental aspect we are in fact suppressing our social manner which people
used to do in ancient period. We lend stuffs from our closest one and forget to
return back. Sadly, we become selfish and boasted of personality we made. We
don't even compromise to a level of others satisfaction. Hey guys, this is the
nature of modernized humans that we generally see in our daily life.
I wanna prove
the negative part of this subjective debate. Many of us live in urban area and
we couldn't lie for our past. Most of us are of village origin. In child, we
used to play with our friends and sometime we argue with them. Its not surprise
that, anybody could fight in childhood. Actually, at that time must of us were
spiky enough and in other words we are quarrelsome. But one thing we should
remember is that we also went to play with the same friend next day. You
probably think it is a kinda special nature of any child but its not actually
what exist in realistic city world. I have studied to some children of city
area. They stopped playing with the same friend afterward. The reason behind
this was their sticky parents. They thought if his/her baby started playing with
the one he/she will face same problem again. In comparison, the parents of
village children instead send their baby to them in sense that they could make
a fresh rapport again and run the campaign with new enthusiasm. I don't think
this only happens in case of child and playing matter. We also studied social
nature of people in subject related to any organized functions. In village,
people are already aware of any program that is going to carry out even before
they are invited for their healthy presence. They used to think, we could be
shameful if we ain't going to contribute any help before/during the program or
simply while managing the function. I didn't see this kindness in case of urban area. We are better aware of date and location of function and also how to
maintain our personality during the period. We are prepared for our look, who
might be the guests, how to subdue arguments in our facet. This is what we see
in most of the cases.
I think we
shouldn't forget our social behavior even if we are a bit better than past. We
could carry it along our personal development .We may loss our culture and
tradition in absence of social act in near future so that our upcoming
generations will be devoid of these stuffs. It will be more interesting if our
babies could experience what we get to do unless it only sets up a beautiful
fairy tale to tell them that these thing had been existed in their parents
life. Having increment of infrastructure doesn't really mean we should avoid
society in making ourself busy and timely but it actually mean how we are going
to process all the associated works in along with our social asset.
Hey guys this is aakash ghimire. I write things in my own way hence, if you get any confusion and complementation reguard this post, plz mention that into comment.
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